web-ed wrote:I suppose the theme of this spanking, if a spanking can have a theme, is that there are women who really need spankings and benefit from them in non-sexual ways. That may be a controversial view, or one that's easy to ridicule as simply the disguise or sublimation of sexual impulses, but I believe it to be correct. The key facts would seem to be that women are not comfortable constantly taking the responsibility - the lead role, as it were - in every endeavor 24/7 - and that the way they can be relieved of all responsibility is to be spanked in a manner which signifies to them that they are not in control any more. I'm sure this is basically the reason so many women in the scene want to feel a loss of control, but there is no reason why this would not apply to women who have never really fantasized about being spanked.
Here is a quote from a spankee friend of mine who had this to say about this pic, "Sometimes a Girl's Spanked Bottom is the gateway to her soul. Our inner selves. I know a lot of my kicking isn't just the Sting. It's the needed release." I think that pretty much goes right along with your comments.
web-ed wrote:I wonder how many non-spanko women could be persuaded to take periodic spankings once they received at least one that left them relaxed and de-stressed? The problem would be convincing many of them that spanking would, indeed, relieve their stress.
I've heard a number of women admit that they need to be relieved of the burden of taking the lead role 24/7. Of course, to spankees, this means getting a spanking. I'm not sure exactly what it means to non spankees but if some of these women were to actually get a spanking, they might realize it's value in releasing negative emotions. After all, many of them were probably spanked by their fathers as girls and perhaps getting such a spanking might bring back memories of those? Thanks, Phil