sunflower309 wrote:hi phil!
ready? here I go!
one of the things I really enjoy is liking for your logo. sometimes it's easy to spot, sometimes not. makes your toons more fun, like a computer game almost.....where's phil?

I like all aspects of your toon as you have an attention to detail.
hi Sunflower,
i'm glad you like the logo hunt

. mostly, i just started doing that because it's more fun than just putting it in the lower right corner each time.
sunflower309 wrote:and yes spankees say really dumb stuff to try and delay or stop the inevitable. it's not easy to think when all your attention is on the sting in your bare bottom.

I always try and keep my panties up and some really dumb things have come out of my mouth. adds to my embarrassment! and I have not found anything that works yet. I don't think there is anything that would work, but I keep trying. in my case I guess I say dumb stuff because I am almost in a panic. most of my brain is focused on whats about to happen. the last little part of my brain that is preoccupied is inadequate to put an intelligent thought together. I guess I get a little frantic because I just can't let go of my control. I give up some but it's hard to give up complete control. that feeling hasn't lessened for me yet.
well, as a spanker, i had to laugh at your comments

. having said that, i think you are exactly right and i think most spankees would agree with you too. i did a toon where a man is advancing on a girl and it's obvious that when he gets his hands on her, he is going to turn her over for a good spanking. she says, "what are you going to do". the spankees who commented on this got a chuckle from it and there was a lot of discussion about just why they say dumb stuff like that when it's obvious what's going to happen

. i think the general consensus was that it was just an automatic response and there really wasn't a lot of thought put into it...............sort of like nervous giggling when a spanking has been announced

. as far as giving up complete control goes...............i think that's normal too and probably only comes with time and trust.
sunflower309 wrote:
and you are right that being over a mans knee is the most embarrassing position there is. I also think it is the most submissive it does make me feel like a naughty child again. and I have less freedom of movement. I have NO control.it has all been taken from me. when I got to leave my pants on OTK it was still more embarrassing than being bent over bare bottom.
that sounds right to me. you mentioned that you have less freedom of movement and no control. do you think that the fact that you are in contact with the spanker and he can feel your reactions might have something to do with that too?
sunflower309 wrote:
also while being spanked we cannot think quickly or clearly! we will on the other hand promise anything. I will paint your house or detail your car.........just stop!

i have heard many spankees make comments about promising anything but i never heard anyone else make it quite this clear

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sunflower309 wrote:
yep, all emotions and sensations fly out the window during a spanking. everything is centered on a red, stinging bottom. after the spanking is over all rational thoughts do return and I can think of all kinds of things I could have said.
again, i think this is a very typical kind of reaction for a spankee. that flood of emotions that inundates a spankee before the spanking starts and is so powerful and intense, is totally forgotten when the spanking starts to hurt like the dickens. i like your comment that you can think of all kinds of things afterward when your rational thoughts return. i don't know that i've ever heard this part of it discussed before but it certainly does make sense.
sunflower309 wrote:since I always get a post spanking hug I liked the ending of this story. and I imagine Christine and Kevin took that a lot farther.
yes. that was my intention when i ended this story....................that they took it a lot farther by going to the bedroom to finish their reconnection. to me this is a happy ending

. that's one reason i like it when the spanking couple is romantically involved............it's so much more intimate

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sunflower309 wrote:I saw this whole story from the spankees point of view and you captured that very well indeed. it's my favorite so far.
sunflower
i appreciate this comment since i was trying to show it from the spankee's point of view.............her thoughts and her emotions

. phil