Do you think you could benefit from some discipline in your life? Are you having trouble meeting important goals because no one is there to give you some words of encouragement when you do well, and some well-placed swats when you're not trying hard enough? Perhaps you’ve done something wrong, and will never know the peace of a clear conscience until you have received corporal punishment? Or maybe you’re the classic brat who secretly wishes that just once you could find a man strong enough to stand up to you and spank you thoroughly for your outrageous conduct? If you live in or are travelling to the Chicago area, why not get the discipline you need from the CSR Web-Ed himself? I am a flexible, knowledgeable and experienced dominant -- compassionate yet authoritative, easy to talk to but as strict as you need me to be. If you are looking to be held accountable for your actions, look no further.
I don't want any sexual involvement, just a good spanking. No problem - this is about spanking, not sex, and I absolutely will not touch you inappropriately or do anything to make you feel uncomfortable during the session. The majority of the women I have sessioned with over the past decade have either been married to or involved with someone who couldn't (or wouldn't) spank them, so I'm used to dealing with this situation. We'll have a nice conversation (possibly ending with a stern lecture) followed by some good spanking, and that's all.
I know I need to be spanked, but I'm afraid of being hurt. I often think that this, along with the sheer embarrassment at the thought of actually being taken over a man's knee, are the two most common reasons women have trouble working up the nerve to receive that first spanking - fear and embarrassment are strong emotions. The embarassment is something you just have to be determined to get through, but as to the fear, I'm a safety-first player who will be watching out for you every step of the way - if I think you've had enough, I'll stop, even if you feel like you could go on. Also, I favor lighter implements (when something other than my hand is called for) that can deliver plenty of sting without doing any real damage. I will respect your limits, and I know what I'm doing. Finally, you will have a safe word you can use at any time, although nobody, in all these years, has ever had to use one with me.
I don't want to be naked! No problem - this is a real-life spanking, not one of those spanking videos you may have seen featuring gratuitous full nudity. I often begin a spanking over clothes (with newcomers I always do this), and while I will eventually bare your bottom, you may remain covered everywhere else. I might even consider a special dispensation, for the complete novice only, and only for the first session.
I'd just die if anyone ever found out I went to you to get spanked. Will you protect my privacy? Yes, absolutely. I fully understand the need for strict confidentiality. Come get the spanking, paddling, or caning of your dreams and no one will ever hear about it from me - I promise.
I've heard many people say that you're as handsome as a movie star - is this true? No, but then again, just try to find a movie star who can apply the paddle to your bottom with the skill I can (I'll bet only "Spankin' Jack" Nicholson even comes close). And I'm not bad-looking by any means -- I'm in my mid 40's, with thinning hair, but generally well-preserved and still athletic. I'll send you a photo if you write to me.
-- "So, I see you haven't started that exercise plan yet (or, stuck to your diet, cleaned up the house, etc. - fill in the blank here with your personal project). Quite a problem with procrastination, haven't you? What you need is a little extra motivation, and I know just the thing. Come here and turn over my knee, young lady ..."
-- "You were driving [recklessly] [wearing no seat belt] [in a dangerous neighborhood at night]. Taking chances with your safety is a very serious matter. How many times have I warned you about doing things like this? I can see you need something to help remind you to take better care of yourself. Come over here. Bend over and place your hands on the chair." (Taking hold of a paddle or cane) "This will hurt, but it's for your own good ... "
-- The discipline plan: this takes some time to work out, but is something you might want to try after you've had a session or two. Basically, you set some reasonable goals for yourself, with suitable consequences specified if you fail to meet them. For example, failure to follow that diet or exercise plan could result in a set number of swats being administered. Part of the plan could include periodic maintenance spankings, as helpful reminders.
-- Roleplay: I don't get very many requests for this, but I'm willing to try it. I prefer any roleplay to be as close to who we really are as possible.
-- The "just for fun" spanking or paddling: what it says. It makes for a very pleasant session.
These are just a few of the more common scenarios - the possibilities for exploration are endless. If you're interested, send a note to the web-ed. Please put the word "spanking" in the subject line to help me distinguish your mail from the hundreds of spams I get every week.
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