it looks like Natalie got her way...............Mark quit tapping and swatted her sore bottom with that paddle
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hi Phil!overbarrel49 wrote:it looks like Natalie got her way...............Mark quit tapping and swatted her sore bottom with that paddle . Well, at least now she doesn't have to wonder how it's going to feel
hi Sunflower,sunflower309 wrote:hi Phil!
yes indeed, be careful what you wish for. I would stand all day and get tapped by the paddle. they are distracting but at least they don't sting! the first swat is indeed the worst one ever. you can imagine all you want what it feels like, but then it lands and it stings more than you thought it would. after that the anxiety is still there because you KNOW what it feels like. the first swat was a shock, but not a totally unpleasant one, somehow. there is that love/hate relationship again.
sunflower309 wrote: and it is embarrassing to count them and call your spanker sir also. I would rather not count, and I definitely do not want to address him as sir. but I did both because I had to. and 15 doesn't seem like a high number and it's not, unless you remember you are getting them on a already well spanked bottom. then, especially if they are administered slow, seems like they will never end. and you are just sure you cannot take another one. but you do, and try to remember to stay in position, to count, to call him sir. it all adds to the anxiety, trust me. but it gets easier as you go along. not the sting or the embarrassment or anxiety, just the remembering what you are supposed to do.
sunflower309 wrote: so again Phil, good job! I can put myself in your toon. thanks for your hard work and sharing it with us. I imagine soon this will depart from my experiences and take a romantic turn. I am waiting for that also!
sunflower
hi web-ed,web-ed wrote:This one was a lot of fun to look at! Apparently, Natalie found penalty swat #1 to be quite an eye-opening experience! And I enjoyed hearing her say "Sir" - it's good to remind the submissive of who's in charge every now and then, and that's one way of doing it.
this sounds to me like it will prove to be interesting and i'll be looking forward to hearing your take on all thisweb-ed wrote:Now, Sunflower mentioned that she didn't like counting or having to say "sir," and we should note that spankees vary quite a bit when it comes to this. As a matter of fact, there is a particular reason for these little variations and preferences that we see even when we confine ourselves to some subset of spanking like paddling, and it's not just a "different strokes for different folks" kind of thing. As it happens, these variations are actually the result of the different ways that different spankees are seeking one particular thing, and I'm going to reveal what that something is in a few months.
more sirs and ows and ouches coming up...................as well as other things of interestweb-ed wrote:Anyway, it will be good for Mark and Natalie's relationship that she be forced to call him "sir" fourteen more times (heh-heh!). I can hardly wait to "hear" her say it - and all those "Ouch!"'s also!
hi Dan,daneldorado wrote:With the arrival of the first swat from Mark's paddle, Natalie is beginning to realize that he means business... as if all those other swats from his strong right hand meant nothing, right?But this is their third anniversary as a couple, so it's only natural that he would want to speed things up.
Natalie is only now feeling the ardor that Mark has lived with for the past three years. Only HIS ardor was in his heart. Now, HER ardor will be flaming on her bottom!
At the start of their evening, Mark had said:
"Now I'm gonna get rid of those frustrations by taking them out on your bare bottom! You've been a very naughty girl and I'm gonna give your bottom the blistering your frustrating, stubborn behavior has earned you!"
Guess he's doing that, now.![]()
Yeah! I wonder why? Heh heh!overbarrel49 wrote:Mark seems to be trying to be helpful to Natalie but somehow she doesn't seem appreciative??? as a matter of fact, she seems down right suspicious
hi Boom,hugob00m wrote:Yeah! I wonder why? Heh heh!![]()
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I think maybe she's right. I bet he is going to find a reason to give her even more swats! I certainly would if I were in Mark's place! Well... actually, I'd be looking for an EXCUSE because the real reason would be that she has such a perfect target! There are some women who should be spanked whether they deserve it or not! Fortunately for Mark... I think Natalie is going to provide him with some kind of naughtiness that will justify those extra penalty swats he's already planning to give her.
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i'm glad you enjoyed the viewhugob00m wrote:And speaking of the REAL reason for wanting to spank Natalie... I like your angle this week! Her cute red bottom is very much on display!![]()
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hi Phil,overbarrel49 wrote:Mark seems to be trying to be helpful to Natalie but somehow she doesn't seem appreciative ??? as a matter of fact, she seems down right suspicious
hi web-ed,web-ed wrote:Now, Sunflower mentioned that she didn't like counting or having to say "sir," and we should note that spankees vary quite a bit when it comes to this
Interestingly enough, counting and addressing the spanker as "sir" are two different, although not entirely unrelated, things. I generally require the spankee to address me as "sir" during the entire session, especially if it's a disciplinary session, and the purpose of this is to emphasize my superior position and make her feel more submissive, which it does very effectively. I don't always make the spankee count swats, although I generally do for the penalty swats since I want to set them apart in some way in the spankee's mind. If a spankee hates counting, I don't make her do it too much, but I reserve the right to make her count out a small number. If the spankee loves counting, I will always make her count some of the swats, penalty or no.sunflower309 wrote:hi web-ed,web-ed wrote:Now, Sunflower mentioned that she didn't like counting or having to say "sir," and we should note that spankees vary quite a bit when it comes to this
yes, these are not my favorite, but I do what I have to do.is the purpose of this, from a spankers standpoint, to show his domination over the spankee? I believe it is. of course until my spanking is finished I have no doubt that I am being dominated, but I guess this is just one way to call attention to that. one of the many ways. if I was not being submissive I would probably count, but not call him "sir". what would you do in that situation? if your spankees don't call you sir during the penalty swats? just wondering, even though every top is different, just as a lot of submissives are different. yet, strangely alike also.
sunflower
I guess that is why I don't like counting. that combined with the sir, and especially thanking "sir" for my swat, is very humiliating. when he counts it's almost as bad. i'm thinking as I gain more spanking experience it is harder for me to be submissive. I want to have some kind of control over something. my first few spankings it was very easy to be submissive. I had thought of situations where I would rebel, but could not bring myself to do it. now the urge is getting stronger. I know, in the back of my mind, that not being submissive will not bode well for my bottom. I believe my top will not put up with any transgressions on my part, but it is getting oh so difficult. I don't know if with any kind of persistence I can have a little control. even if it's not counting penalty swats, or calling him sir, or something. sometimes when given an order I say "no" but then quickly give in. I don't want to do that anymore. willingly. I guess I wil see how much nerve I have, and how dominant my top is. like Natalie, I made my spankings too easy. but the first time, not knowing what to expect she did the right thing! see what you started Phil? LOLweb-ed wrote:The purpose of counting, generally speaking, is to increase the spankee's humiliation
hi sunflower,sunflower309 wrote:hi Phil,
in my short experience, a spanker it never helpful to a spankee. I would be suspicious also. penalties seem too easy to come by. more easy than avoiding them. after all when you are in a position to be checking out the floor (my spanker has very nice hardwood floors) and your bottom is waving in the air it is very easy to forget to do what you're supposed to do (like call him "sir") or do something that you're not supposed to do. everything about a spanking is for the spankers advantage, in my opinion. which isn't really a bad thing for the spankee, except for the red, sore bottom. there is that love/hate relationship again. I like the before anticipation, and the results after, but not so much during. the penalty swats are the worst (best), I don't pick my leg up but I do try and shuffle forward a little after each swat, like I can get away from that damn paddle! and you spankers are good at finding new excuses for our penalty swats, so there is no chance of escaping them. again Phil, you nailed this one (LOL) and this could indeed still be me. after seeing this toon I thought back to my first penalty swats. I will never look forward with anticipation to getting swats, but I will remember them (maybe fondly isn't the right word, but it's close) and the first ones were my most intense emotionally. like Natalie I think I was a fast learner. and still suspicious! thanks Phil for a great toon!!
sunflower
hi web-ed,web-ed wrote:Now as to Phil's latest, panel #30 - we can't escape the subject of penalty swats, since that's what's going on here, and like B00m I love the view in this one (I would think all Tops do). Poor Natalie - still 8 more swats to go! I really do feel sorry for her, but Top that I am, I also want to see her get her 8 more swats
(More spanking psychology here - male Tops are less conflicted than female Subs, but I think a good Top must always blend compassion in with "sadism", here used loosely to mean the desire to administer an effective spanking).
Sunflower, i do see what i started and i'm glad i did as i have enjoyed the exchange between you and web-ed showing the differing attitudes between spanker and spankeesunflower309 wrote:see what you started Phil? LOL
Hi Phil,overbarrel49 wrote: i don't mind telling everyone that i have been picking Sunflower's brain during this part of the toon and that she has shared her experiences with me and looked at each pic during the penalty swats to give me input.
overbarrel49 wrote:Sunflower, i do see what i started and i'm glad i did as i have enjoyed the exchange between you and web-ed showing the differing attitudes between spanker and spankee . thanks, phil
Sunflower, i do see what i started and i'm glad i did as i have enjoyed the exchange between you and web-ed showing the differing attitudes between spanker and spankeesunflower309 wrote:see what you started Phil? LOL. thanks, phil
and as always I think the spankee comes out on the short end! web-ed has so much more experience and knowledge than me. I think i have learned enough to know that the spanker is always right, and what the spankee wants is of no consequence, at least once the spanking starts. and on here i seem to be the only spankee against all you spankers.......not good odds! but fun for everyone.![]()
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