Ed,
Your opinions on Female/male spanking (04/12/2008) are ill-informed, and offensive.
Can't you just say that you enjoy what you enjoy, without bringing up ridiculous notions of what is and is not "natural"? Many, many people would think any interest in adult spanking is not "natural" to start off with. "Natural" is in the eye of the beholder!
And to say 'We hesitate to even mention F/M spanking as we consider it much less natural than M/F"??? Duh!!!
You would do much better to keep arrogance to yourself.
-Gary

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Gary,

As it happens, you must have found a cached page through a search engine, because I revised the ”offensive” page some time ago. I decided a purely technical ”how-to” article was not the place to elaborate on my theories on the psychology of spanking. You might want to check out the page as it exists today. But I wasn’t backing away from my conclusions; I merely wished to avoid any misunderstandings caused by my lack of time to go into details. There are many people like you – the moral, ethical, and psychological relativists now plaguing society – who deny all standards of morality and resist the very idea of normality. Unfortunately for you, it is possible and even necessary to establish reasonable and objective measures of psychological health, and to differentiate normal from abnormal behavior.

As to whether spanking itself is normal, I don’t have the time to delve into the question right now. But it is a fact that males are by nature sexually dominant and females are by nature sexually submissive, which means that when these roles are reversed we should expect to see some kind of trouble, unless (as in your case) we have allowed political correctness to replace logic. Yes, there are some couples that are happy with their F/M spanking relationship, and I certainly have no moral objection to them or to F/M spanking itself. But more often the relationship is clearly under a strain, largely because F/M spanking has the potential tendency to undermine the woman’s confidence in the man – probably the central underpinning of any successful relationship. Note that the reverse is not true: M/F spanking does not undermine the relationship because a normal man is not looking for emotional security from the woman.

My concern, then, is humanitarian, not moral: I do not seek to condemn men who desire to receive spankings; I see them as being caught in a tough situation not of their making, and they have my greatest sympathy (especially the non-switchable ones).

Finally, as to my “arrogance” and “offensiveness”: I will not apologize for my abilities. The fact of the matter is that I can do some things – like evolve an original and coherent theory to explain the psychology of spanking – that most other people can’t. And every scientific theory, every book, play, and symphony in history that was worth a damn offended someone (like you) somewhere. I hope to go on producing many more”offensive” works for a long long time to come! Hope you enjoy them!

Web-Ed

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