overbarrel49 wrote:
I too like to see a girl getting spanked over her panties. It seems to me that a woman who is OTK, with the seat of her panties sticking up looks even more like a naughty, little girl than if her bottom had been bared. Again, this is probably due to my high school girl friend. When I first started spanking her, we were not yet to the point where she was comfortable with me pulling her panties down so most of the early spankings were administered on the seat of her panties. Perhaps web-ed can clue us in on the psychology of all this and tell us if my assumption that spanking her over her panties is why I still like spanking a girl on the seat of her panties? Even after we got the the point where pulling her panties down was acceptable, I still usually start spankings over her panties before pulling them down and spanking her bare bottom.
In this case, I figured that Lynne's dad would only pull her panties down if he thought it was necessary to get her where she needed to go. After all, she hadn't really done anything wrong so there was no point in subjecting her to that added embarrassment unless it was necessary. Anyway, thanks for your comment. I'm really glad you enjoyed it so much. Thanks, Phil
I think there is no question, Dan and Phil, that we are shaped by our early sexual experiences in adolescence just as we were earlier shaped by what I have called our proto-sexual experiences in early childhood. This is no doubt due to truly adult sexual feelings being expressed and fully experienced for the first time. Thus while we "natural" spankos became that way in childhood, and our spanking tastes were initially shaped by our early spanking experiences,
they were then modified during our later experiences that were becoming increasingly sexual. I had given only one spanking before I was 12, but by that time I was being affected by school paddlings and, not coincidentally, giving a school-style paddling myself. As everyone knows, I ended up absolutely crazy about paddlings! The first time I spanked a girlfriend OTK on her panties I took them down right afterward and spanked her on the bare

, and lo and behold! Ever afterward I always spanked on the bare bottom (with rare exceptions).
Similarly, you two were shaped by the early experiences with your girlfriends where you spanked them on their panties but not on the bare. To reproduce the excitement you felt then, you still start spanking over the panties today. (Note that there are individual variations, and we are affected in possibly different ways by these experiences. Thus, I
might have wound up just like you guys, but apparently taking the spankee's panties down was so exciting during that "first" experience to me that it overshadowed the intensity of spanking over panties. So it could have been a difference in personalities, or more likely the proximity in time in my case, where I simply couldn't wait to get to the bare bottom of things

!)
That's my theory, anyway.
And Phil: thanks for continuing this series despite being so busy. What you and Dan and B00m and Phil S. do here helps make up for me being perpetually "behind" in my CSR work!
