web-ed wrote:Yes, it's very important that women not be allowed to carry around excess guilt with them

. Seriously, this can be a real problem, and many spankees do feel badly about something they've done, or are continuing to do. It can be an ongoing problem or (less frequently) something that happened a long time ago. In Tina's case, while her resentment of her mother's gleeful viewing of her spankings went back many years, her guilt was based on her recent viewing of Vicki's own spanking.
hi web-ed,
i think you've hit the nail right on the head here. one of the problems with guilt, or other bad feelings, is that, if left unresolved, they can stick around for a long time. when that happens, that guilt can fester and even turn into resentment that can act like a wedge between 2 partners. i always figured that as a husband, it was my job to take care of my wife's needs.......in this case, her emotional needs. that being the case, i always tried to resolve such feelings as quickly as possible because the less time those bad feelings hang around, the less time they have to fester.
web-ed wrote:And spanking does work wonder for getting rid of a woman's guilt feelings, although it has to hurt a fair amount to really purge those feelings completely. There is often a strong desire to shed real tears in such cases as well.
again, i agree. the husband must see to it that it is a good, punishing spanking and make sure he doesn't stop too soon. that's the only way to get rid of the wife's guilt. even though she will probably hate the spanking while it's going on and may even get angry, she will appreciate it after it's over because her guilt and stress are gone. in many cases, she will actually respect and love her husband more because of his strength of will and that he loves her enough to blister her bottom and resolve this matter. spanking is an excellent way to get such matters resolved and get rid of such feelings. it is the quickest possible way. it just takes a few minutes and once it's over, all is forgiven and the slate is wiped clean. the girl's guilt is gone since she has been punished for what she's done and the the man's frustrations are gone because he has taken them out on her bare bottom. there isn't any time for the girl's guilt to turn to resentment because her husband did nothing to resolve the matter or for the man's frustrations to turn to resentment because of her behavior.
as far as the tears go.......i almost always show the spankee crying in my toons but i don't think it's always that simple. most spankees i've talked to find it impossible to cry during a spanking, even though they would really like to. tears are, of course, an excellent emotional release and help the spankee a great deal in getting rid of guilt or other bad feelings and girls know that and would like to cry during a spanking but just normally can't do it. what i'm told is that if a woman does cry during a spanking it is usually because she feels deeply emotional about having let her man down or hurting him somehow and not because of the pain of the spanking.
web-ed wrote:So at last we have a mystery explained here. Unfortunately for Tina, she still has to face that paddle, a fact which I'm sure she'll be reminded of shortly.

indeed the mystery is explained

. Tina does indeed have to face the paddle now...........although she won't actually be
facing it

. thanks, phil